Nothing is worse than reach an objective or succeed in an enterprise and discover that the people at your surroundings dont feel proud or positive about it-but, on the contrary, feel envy. Everyone has felt this unpleasant emotion for once in my life and probably much more than that. Recognize the signs that someone is jealous of you can be the first step to fix it. Here we list some signs:

1. false Praise

When someone is jealous of you, it is often the first to give a compliment that sounds sincere or seems to be in a passive aggression. However, youll find that these people are going to be rolling my eyes at the moment you leave the room.

They prefer to pretend you are not jealous. A way to reverse it is to give them praise sincere when something good happens to you. This might help them see that you are a genuine person and help curb the jealousy of them.

2. Underestimating your success

No matter what you do or how much you work for it, jealous people always try to make it look like a fluke, or that you havent worked so hard to achieve your success. The reasons why they arise can be rude or condescending. Raise the bait will only make them more likely to speak ill. Stay humble but firm in his conquests. If you boast, it is more likely that they are jealous of you.

3. Theyre imitating

Someone who is jealous of you or wants to be better than you, or be like you. They can mimic the way you talk or the way you dress to feel better about yourself. Rather than let that bother you, try to encourage them to follow your own path. When they are doing their own things, give them positive reinforcement. Show them that they dont need to be you to be great and that they can be your own person.

4. They are competitive

Jealous people tend to be highly competitive, because they always want to be the ones reaping the success, they are insecure or arrogant and want to prove superiority.

If they try to argue with you about a job promotion, simply tell them: "its not a competition." Refuse to play their game will make them less likely to try to keep with you.

5. celebrating its flaws

Someone who is jealous will feel particularly well when you make a mistake or is reprimanded or fixed at work or school. Although they never show it, theyre enjoying secretly their failures. Deal with your mistakes with free! You can always remind them that err is part of life and learning. If youre not angry, theyre not enjoying the pleasure that they thought they would.

6. They play behind his back

Jealous people always find a way to talk about you behind your back. Its not fun and the things that they say can be malicious and damaging. The best way to deal with someone who does this can be just confront it directly.

As the jealous people dont tend to be confronted externally, talk seriously with them about what they are doing can be enough to make them rethink your behavior or stop altogether.

We cant prevent anyone envy us. and, in many cases, theres nothing we can do to limit the envy of others, because these people have a special way of understanding the world the suffering of others sometimes seems a "blessing" for them. Therefore, the smartest thing to do is try to stay away from them and pay attention to the obstacles they put in our way.

Another alternativeis to highlight your va strength and success in the hope that the haters understand that we are all different and have different abilities. It is not necessary to compare ourselves because we dont have to be better than others, but only better than ourselves.